Why women like to spy on the secret third party?

Pry into other people's privacy and right and wrong in the human behind the talk is very keen to do a lot of women, these are the "gossip" psychological typical performance.

 The absent, who back in the wrong. Gossip of the blame, because the gossip itself is the process of human evolution, a way of disseminating information.

 Gossip daily life for a person playing a social function, it gradually social customs, practices, ethical standards and impact of disseminated and become a member accepted by society.

 However, in social interaction, some people have often tongue as a weapon in order to sow dissension, slander others for the purpose to spread gossip, this is "gossip" type of gossip to some of the annoying.

 From a psychological point of view, why some people are bored with it?
First of all, is concerned about the needs of people. "Gossip" over the basic characteristics of a third party to share a secret. If a person after making inquiries, other people know some or true or false news, he (she) said many of these elements are often able to attract an audience, to become another center of attention. To mastering the secrets of others to fully enjoy being aware that the feeling of being respected, and this is not a pleasant experience in real life as a compensation.

 Second, is the need to release stress. If one too many secret heart, then the need for more mental energy to control these secrets, which is often uncomfortable, so they will certainly have the need to talk.

 Finally, the need for close contacts. People living in the world, everyone is lonely, are hoping to get other people's recognition and acceptance, there is the desire of friendship. The development of friendship in general will be through joint activities, secret sharing phase, "gossip" in essence, is to borrow someone else to share the secret means of access and the growth of friendship between the listener, the relationship between promotion. However, the need to explain that, in friendship, share the secrets of development, both pre-shared secret to others, but also further expose their secrets.