Which revealed a couple of body language needs?

When Husband and wife have one generation of requirements, would not under normal circumstances is no need to use language to express it out. An atmosphere of sexual needs, have a good emotional atmosphere was easy. If bluntly shout out at the same time dancing up and will immediately destroy the atmosphere, giving the impression that sex is simply that the meat of overlap.

 
Between husband and wife do not directly express requirements is a wise but civilized. But this appears a question: did not say how the other know? Especially those who do not know each other a couple of deep or insensitive, how to solve this problem? Abroad, many scholars are studying a "body Linguistics" . This branch of learning that one can use facial expressions, gestures, posture, etc. to express the meaning to the very rich. Suggest that a silent body language. However, the language suggested to play a role, we must first allow the other party know that you sent a hint, while the other did not know its exact meaning is "ineffective communication."

 
For example, there was her husband showered, and excitedly told his wife: "Today washed really comfortable!" In fact, he is Hualiyouhua. Wife did not hear the overtones of a man asleep early at night, and her husband had to sulk. In fact, the husband after his wife did not understand the hint, why not do it again suggesting a more concise it?

 
Send a hint Society must also strive to nature, to avoid stiff. Are generally blunt provocative hint of physical contact, such as the sudden and unexpected kiss, slap cheeks, such implied meaning glance, and direct say not much difference. If there is not a good time in each other's feelings, it is prone to hearing from you. Stiff and mechanical to issue suggests that husbands often make mistakes. American Psychological therapist Dr. Lei Man told an example: "I have a female patient, her husband not only physical contact as sexual patents, and did a very mechanized. Every Wednesday or Thursday night, about 10 o'clock, he began to pat, touch her, and then Xiangxie bed. He almost does not touch her at other times, they do not otherwise touch her. "

 
Suggested to be natural, or resourceful have often had an idea, and mostly is the use of the environment. Steven, 38, together with his wife to the field, passing through the middle of the year studying the city, where their first love is the beginning. During the day, they rolled to his alma mater. At night, they excitedly talked about the year of study and life. When talked about the time love the small number of very interesting things, Zita Man found his wife's eyes flashed a gentle eyes, he began to gently touch her, kiss her passionately ... ... This suggests that the two natural spent a night of happiness and ecstasy.
Society suggested that does not mean do not speak, but not straightforward to say it. In between husband and wife to suggest language requirement is a common phenomenon, which was widely used phrase is: "Let's go to sleep!" Say this, of course, is not always implied requirements, people still want to sleep. In order not to misunderstand each other, say this change must be supplemented by facial expression, at least have a tone change. Otherwise, be prepared for you when the other party has really sleep.

 
For husband and wife sex life full of fun, the implied requirement should also regularly change. Between husband and wife in marriage for many years, often already formed a fixed hint hint over time will lose its original disclosure does not reveal the kind of desire, Banzhebanyan stimulation, it seems dull. For example, one wife, when she asked her husband for underwear when it was suggested she have this requirement. The beginning of her husband also felt quite interesting, and later her husband take the trouble to deliberately to ignore her, and his wife have had to give up this hint.

 
Society suggested strengthening the emotional ties between husband and wife is absolutely beneficial. The weekend nights, put the bed in his wife a bouquet of flowers or any other gift, it is a romantic and warm. In addition, many husbands take the initiative to help his wife with household chores, often the simple and natural implications.