I was asked friends what you value most? I said: First, sincere and trustworthy, two, free of charge to pay, three, tight-lipped. This friends is very long. Of course, I am more optimistic about the third, if a friend can be your secret secretive, he has actually done the first two. Speaking of secretive, then there is a secret between husband and wife can not say? Woman, if you want harmony of couples, these ten things, you do not, and her husband, said:
1, you lost over the body, flows through the middle for whom
Prior history of a woman married, deceived lose your virginity, or rape, or abortion, will become the past, but also a matter of personal privacy, do not need marriage spread. You found? If you have trouble, in addition to your parents for you to cover the scandal, but also a conservative who has been a secret? Change may be love and friendship, is always the same family. Blood to maintain the parents in which different perspectives, and then you turn iron into steel, a last resort, they will always be kept secret in the end, killing is not in public.
And love is different, do not deny that a strong concept of virgin and virginity about a man, so that they subconsciously vertical and horizontal comparison, weighing whether a woman has been matched, if given enough his face in society, so that my pride lift head. This is the parents and the most essential difference between love, you left them, and then go away, they will always be your parents father and mother, but you broke up and divorced spouse, or your lover? A good number of couples are crossing the same boat, turn it against each other. Time, history will be tainted hit your weapon. Being a woman, doing things to left posterior.
2, your maiden scandal
Every family has called a cupboard. In the womb has no authority to parents and siblings, family background and the need to change things, can only passively accept. Sometimes happy, sometimes ruthless. Perhaps Dangdie and what a woman having an affair, perhaps when the mother does not keep the Women with a certain male adultery, or brother, a notorious record, and so, even less on home situation again, that is his family, like her husband did not need to tell the Nile story.
A certain time, these disks will become her husband Zhimo the laughing stock of sections, but also as if to look down on you. When your feelings when the cracks, this is the best response. You and about to break his marriage, your parents could not come out of the town. Strange errors in your family under the beam on the beam distortion certainly not your fault, or I do it? When virtue is not your parents, their children's marriage also Guan Dezhao it? Let him know the consequences of family scandal: not only you feel ashamed, talk to your family did not weight. Remember, family scandal never be published.
3, you crush of people
Since it is a secret crush on someone, the status of you are married, with the mob, her husband ridicule you, or even ridicule you, better to quietly buried in the heart of this situation. Different women and men, men love to brag, do not boast it is not man. He can use the number of how many women I slept, and even went to the pleasure quarters, played any tricks to show off to prove their ability. Gu said the master, men want their women to love all the world, but subconsciously they want the whole world a woman love him. Oh, you say this is what spirit? Certainly not the spirit of Bethune, all I see is pocketed spirit, the spirit and whimsical spirit of syphilis, not far from the nerve.
Someone in secret, the men will think of bed. They think that a man loves a woman and a woman Fall in love with a man, must go this road. Even Zhang said, the men and women of the road leading to the narrow channel is the woman thing. In fact, the woman's secret love is not the same, they love a person, not first consider the physical contact with him, maybe just the spirit of the derailment, to find someone to listen to talk about, at best, under the future in a dream fantasy. Derailed often slow a woman, because to consider the family, her husband and children. However, men are perhaps think of his wife in bed and the little white face clouds and rain. Has always been a man of rational thinking is more emotional than the emotional woman, who is sad that it? Both married men want their women customs million, and hope that she only slowly and enjoy. Affair of the woman, never let a man feel ashamed, but also hated by their inexcusable. Because these degrading women is not only her husband's romantic face, there is a man's self-esteem, and even personality. So, woman, you tell the secret of my heart, so then set himself on fire.
4, not his martial arts
Even her husband in bed really can not, can not always beat he does not like a man, this time you need comfort, or indifferent, but not pathetic. Can not be perfunctory, said: okay it, collected, and it, as you live together or get along with so and so powerful, so you do not compare. You imply that you have a lover or how how good effort is not against her husband now. Men are strong, but there are inferior time. Inferiority can be run through a man's life. Say that women are weak, in fact, men are more fragile, you know, women are weak and tough, man just easy to break. Women in the psychological and physiological capacity of slightly larger than the male, you did not find the women live longer than men do? Woman's emotions can be hung on the face, but how many men are sad, how many miserable, knocked the teeth in the pharynx to the stomach.
Public opinion to force a man hat and no cattle, but they really do not some fat. In fact, most men need a woman for certain, you ridicule a man's sexuality, it means that people do not fight the whole of his masculinity. He lacks self-confidence, psychological barriers, has a heavy ideological burden, light the ED, heavy loss of sexuality. Know? Not that they can not, but when they get tired, there is depression caused by psychological stress, these are likely to ED, ED on the good governance of physical, mental collapse of the ED to rule out really bad. Unlike the man you call husband, to say that a man he lost the qualification to do so humiliated, face are not. Unless of course you do not want to continue to live with him, and wanted to get the words. If you love her husband, would do this?
5, you saw first love
Although their love men, but often Yingxiongqiduan, they care about women's past, in order to explore the past, they would deceive a woman: I love you now, not the past, baby child, just let it go. Waiting for you to say something, they want to hear second and third parts, or even more. This is a personal possessive, a virgin superstition, regardless of whether they are virgin, but definitely requires a woman pure. This is the man. Men love impulse, emotional instability, that women love themselves, feel they are the happiest people, once informed that his wife met my first love, they will fit of jealousy, it is difficult to extricate themselves. You say, the urge, the devil can you do?
6, met with friends you alone
With the popularity of the Internet under the net to meet men and women see more. Can still maintain a normal relationship with friends, if two people have feelings, it is inevitable incense burner, you cheated, no longer traveling with them, but also contrition he had hurt the family, unworthy of her husband. If you feel guilty, to compensate for it with action, do not tell the truth. In fact, some really speak out, is the greatest harm to her husband. You said, you always have the shadow between the two, you never have weaknesses in his hand. Said a woman jealous, jealousy, such as flash floods smoked day, direct vent miles. But you know what? Man's jealousy more, but because of the man demeanor, inconvenience open attack, but also Zhuangchuyifu nothing had happened, but he could get through other forms of expression. Throughout the ages, Cu Tanzi tipped alone is not the right woman, vinegar is not terrible, horrible thing is that vinegar can kill the rival. So, let the vinegar slowly volatile, back to nature the best. Hello everybody, is really good.
7, you have such and such a delusional
The spirit of obscenity may be only illusions, impossible. Big talk, you like certain pop stars, small talk around so and so. You like, or even to get married and be a visionary, a child can not say that the result is that the husband look down on you, you and a certain obscenity in the end are not they with me? That is no way I see you, poor you, shelter you, hey, I say ugly Xiaoya, do not whimsical, and is honest with your life now. Woman, if you have self-esteem, better not stay here under his blow.
8, the last you ever had venereal disease
Perhaps ago for various reasons, including your debauchery, your dirty experience that you won this disease, even if you are cured. But if you want good, then, like a good family life, then the last one to turn away, why let your pillow remind people remember it? Not a glorious thing, you are suffering pain on their own good, do not implicate his wife also accompany the pain with you. STD this thing, it is easy to think you are a lustful woman, vile, dirty. Maybe you're just a result of infection from the sky, and so is her husband of discrimination, is not it wrong? Something rotten in the stomach the best.
9, divorced woman and her ex-husband to contact
Do not look at you and your husband with you too well, but then her husband know you're open-minded frequent contact with her ex-husband, and my heart will be sour, his sour sweet do you? Of course, you have to contact, it is best to reduce the number of contacts with ex-husband, or you do not say, will be found in him. But you say worse. Men are misunderstood woman. In fact, most single men, even married, they also want to control the movements of his wife. With the shadow of divorce have been psychological, if it is even worse cheating ex-wife, he may be sensitive to the trace you, check your information to let you breathe. 24-hour monitored interrogation, you will not be easy? So, a woman, thought peace day, or prudence as well.
10, is the unspoken rules of your boss
In order to something, you and the boss having an affair. Even for your husband, he will not thank you. Because now you, already is unclean woman. Hepatopulmonary kind as to give him the best ass. Men Siyaomianzai living death, this is tantamount to giving him wear a green hat. Extramarital affair with another man in subconscious, he believed that women are not laughing at yourself the effort, not a man, what is more important than self-esteem? If a woman is more to the cause of virginity should not, you are superior to the rule, not the fun I can not feed you? If a man can not feed the men, women are also called man? If you are interested in and who is cheating, the saying goes, rabbits do not eat grass nest side of it, you do this in the unit, also called the face of a man I have it? If the wife is another man with power, conquered with money, equivalent to conquer the husband himself, would be a serious setback to their vanity, or even mad. Woman, he senses, will you normal?
Husband: Honey, above these things, you could say.
Smile: This ... ... kiss ~ Oh, my husband, I really really can not say -
Family harmony need art, marital relationships needed skills. Siege is not the personal privacy exploitation, women have an independent space, hearts must be secret. Small ignored, not to mention big. Written here with the idea of a smile, not necessarily comprehensive, gals, what can not and her husband said, you come to add it.
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