Character and personality determine your happiness to

We all want happiness, but in fact not many people achieve happiness, no happiness is the destiny of the people always complain about the error, but in fact we have to ask yourself? Own happiness is really God is not caused by ? Or is it all because we own it?

 
Are you free? I want to see you. I heard the voice of long time no hear.

 
We are partners. Four years time, we work together a show every day. Get along very often very long time.

 
World without immortality programs. Ratings for some and irrelevant factors, one can draw a large audience applauded the program closing time. In the media, programs, and the sky suddenly shut the shop, like heavy rain, perhaps not within the weather forecast, do not do a good surprise for.

 
Nothing bad between us, but also nothing particularly good. In order to show the practice, there have been one or two years time, because our personalities are insisted there had been some twists and turns in the communication, because the views are different, often uncompromising, but in the end, or make up. Because she knows that I did not malicious, and I know that she is serious.

 
Sure. I said. Did not ask why. Gap between the video there, meet old friends do not trouble.
She brought you the heart, smiling face that had come: 'This is my first stop tour of Atonement.
Atonement trip?
What is a good offense redeem it? She did not offend me. Although the contact much, but we are still friends.
She gently explained:
Not long ago, her career happened because of some problems, start with the answer, like a rat maze, constantly looking for a way out, she was introduced to meet a teacher telling eighties.
Not so much a fortune-telling, as it is a Chinese-style counseling it. She said she has been a consistent, and done nothing wrong, sit straight, why the previous serious work, always smooth, it is still serious work, and everywhere he did not.
The teacher did not answer directly. Just say, ah, you know, personality and character, are two different things.
Since the work of character you feel good, but not necessarily good for your work personality. Experience willing to understand you, with you, will be good luck; if people and your field or not, you'll struggle to cast out.
As soon as word reached the muffled thunder of her heart.
She began to reflect on their own.
So, you are my first stop of atonement. After a year of adversity this thinking, I recognize the past, how happy I am. Zhilaizhiwang personality, should offend you. Fortunately eventually make peace a. Work in the past for some things the way I communicate with you some rude, please forgive me. '
She was right and I blushed.
In fact, I like her personality. Count on Zhilaizhiwang, straighten fierce when it offended people, often do not know.
Over the years, there have been many large and small, my reaction is often 'I think I am not wrong as long as to move forward in the fight', but some things come from the management of I am not wrong, but forget standing on the other side in perspective. Had management, while, suddenly become a super Owen, forget tolerance, gentleness and kindness.

 
Even have to be considerate, it may hurt without knowing it.
I often think: I was right, but that I think. There are many things to prove later, I think that one hundred percent correct judgments, is only a misunderstanding.
Operation between people, like a precision machine table inside the complex gear, if one of the gear that: I was right to insist on running their own pace, you may mess things up all the order.
In other words, the subjective right, often create discord between people, harming others without benefiting oneself. Work with the man, after all, can not be separated from speaking.
Between man and man, if far from cordial to stay away from the upright. No matter how you say yes, others is not going to listen.
These things, in the good times can not understand, only the unexpected encounter in life hardship, the only sort of understanding: they need improvement, perhaps better. However, if the lack of self-examination of the heart, it may not be cognitive, and believe that someone else's fault.
Not a fate does not, nor is it right character, adhere to the right, but not personality, so to say others can not accept, or because the bitter, only secretly constraints, added a lot of bad people, deserves to be mad at yourself.
Atonement trip, expressed willingness to change. In fact, once she did not offend me. Her to apologize, so I feel more of the apology.
Who innocence? Even if we think they done nothing wrong, sit straight, I'm sorry we always have people who do bad things, we must repent the past and some 'I'm not still on the list because I died 'life defects.
More problematic than the character personality
I read a biography of an Administrative Officer, he has always been known for upright, but criticized him a lot of people hate him. He once said: please people and do good things in between, I chose to do things well.
His life clean, flawless character, but also keep the environment in his confrontation with the opposition, people who work for him, there are many people walk out.
His acting may not be wrong with the judge, however, all people have dignity. Tend to attract more severe personality villain.
Character flaw, not to act without fault.
Read "Travels," I remember the most profound period of human conflict was undoubtedly the rivers and lakes to the Caozhou Dr Lao line that section of the foot.
Caozhou a high ranking official, is a famous upright official Yu Yin. He called his ruling regional 'Lubushiyi', however, is built on good morals harsh law. As long as the state was gently break the law, will be met with heavy penalties.
Lao heard over the past year, the 'station cage' ─ ─ a prisoner locked up in the inside, not to sit may not have been lying dead in the cage to stand ─ ─ stand to the death of a thousand people, if you are a strong life force, a lot of station was not yet dead, may also be board to death.

 
People did not appreciate him, call him in private, 'Huoyan Wang', he encountered the living dead.

 
Another dreaded Ruthless people, called just Bute, he has always been to 'do not accept bribes' of the GAO is known, but a suspicious nature, using torture to extract confessions and Law, under the jurisdiction of the servants if he were a little compassion, he also suspect that the subordinate must be accepting bribes is so tolerant.

 
"Travels," the author said so, Liu E: corrupt hateful, everyone knows; honest and upright official of the hateful, many people do not know. Those corrupt officials are aware that they have problems, so did not dare to openly do bad things; clean government but think: I did not take money, no flaws to attack, what is not it? They are the self-willed 'is killing the small and large countries is wrong . '

 
Character and personality is really two different things. "Travels" to say is: flawless character who thinks, if the individual in question, made disasters, I am afraid of people than the tainted character more and greater ah. Our history textbooks are even knew Tso and Zeng, two people are the generation of the late Qing Ming Chen. Friendship between the two, has also been more than brothers also pro. However, the two later fell out of it completely.

 
Why?
Hunan Association of two people, Shilin Yang character are subject to heavy, very different personality. Tseng Kuo-fan's temper clearly much better, has always been good at the quest for talent, promoted a lot of people, Zuo test Scholars have pass the test several times, but Zeng see his talent, hired him as chief of staff. Since then, led to his troops have the right to play the leading role of trust in Tso.

 
General Tso's personality, that is the decisive point advantage, saying that downside is emotional and sensitive character, the evil, spoke very directly, and a little poison. Many of his criticisms are 'not the person', but some of the criticism about Tseng, Tseng was passed caring people, Mr Tsang course, that left ungrateful.

 
Battle of the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, Zeng report to the emperor, Hong's son had died in the palace; tang is based on a sense of justice, while playing on a break, that's not true, said Zeng, Hong's son has escaped. Or Tso said is true, but his truth behind the meaning is: Zeng Qijunwangshang!

 
They therefore Enduanyijue! Tso death is also believed that the reason they break off, accounting for seven Tseng's fault, eight, everyone that curse Zeng.
This is the true nature of Tso, anyway, the only thing he is outspoken. However, Tseng Kuo-fan's point of view to stand, he certainly was not pleased. Mr. left his hand-picked, but he is not sure Thanksgiving!

 
Two death, heart was not broken.
Left no problem with the character of Mr., the problem is personality.
Mr Tsang's character, perhaps Mr. Left is more upright than, but less of his personality problems.
So, Mr. Tsang can have a large group of disciples to help him, forces grew, and Tso is always the lonely struggle of a person on its own, due to too many enemies, it is difficult to win the trust, made him hard to the upper floor.
My friend told me that she wanted to correct her personality, I also found that her problem is my problem.
Somewhere, she was to tell me my problem.
The two will play in the conflict, in fact, have the same problem. This is the paradox between relationships.
We all have the same problem.
A problem, is a life issue.
Every stage of life, there is an issue.
If not resolved, we will be marking time, in similar stages, struggling to wandering, can not find the exit, until one day, we are willing and sincere personality changes, see the problems, or, we all pay a visit to the sin of the trip .